I read an article recently that talked about how women are better fly fisherman then men. When I read the article I thought to myself this is crap. Just another ploy to get more women into the sport. This morning the Triangle Fly Fishers had a beginners fly fishing event and I decided to help out. There was a woman who came that had never fly fished let alone waded before. She mentioned fishing mostly lakes but it was hard to concentrate on what she was saying as I helped her untangle line from her rod. I'd like to think I'm a very patient un-judgmental person but I also come to a opinion when I first meet people. I figured I'd be spending most of the morning with this lady.
The water looked great and as I talked to the group and as if on que a fish hit a few feet off the bank as I was telling them about not having to cast far. Half of the group stayed with me and the others went upstream. Since this lady had never caught a fish before with a fly rod I felt some pressure to get her something on the line. I decided I wasn't going to fish until she caught one. What came evidently clear with in the first 20min is women are better fly fishermen then men. They just seem to listen better and apply what you're telling them correctly. This lady had never cast a fly rod before and in 20min she was casting 20-30ft and caught her first fish.
She caught another fish with in minutes and I decided to move on to check on the others. Later I returned to watch how she had progressed. She was fishing under a tree with her husband, a seasoned fly fisherman. He was giving her pointers and every now and then I looked up to see her rod bent with a fish on the other end. I was still amazed at her progress with this being her first time. Near the end of the morning she was roll casting. I can't remember how long it took me to roll cast. I know each person is different but I've gone with 3 different women who never touched a fly rod before and all of them were casting and catching fish quickly on the first day. I'd love to say it was my tutelage but I know better.
The rest of the morning was the usual for the Eno. Sunfish left and right and beautiful shadows along the trail.
This river is really a local treasure and it doesn't get the appreciation it deserves.
It has the features of a mountain stream but it's with in 15min of downtown Durham. Even though it's a State Park many people living in the area don't know it exists. While hiking the trail I came across this flower.
It was the first time I have ever seen a flower like this before and it only grew in one area of the trail that I could find.
Out of all the hiking, teaching and exploring I managed to fish. I was even lucky enough to hook the elusive Roanoke Bass.
I'd say it was a good morning.
Kevin
ReplyDeleteThat Roanoke Bass is colorful, especially with the redeye. I thought we had some redeye bass here but that one outshines our species.
The lady you were instructing must have never got any instruction from her husband. I know that the husband wife thing doesn't work well for me and probably not the rest of the guys out there. Thanks for sharing
The husband actually was giving her pointers near the end. It was fun watching him enjoy watching her catch fish.
DeleteGreat story, Kevin! All it takes is an open mind, some guidance, and anything can be achieved. I completely agree with you that "women are better listeners" ...that's a fact.
ReplyDeleteThat bass looks awesome! Love that big red eye.
The red eyes are amazing. So ruby red. Kind of mesmerize ya.
DeleteGood going there, Kevin. Women may also be better fly-tiers, at least when starting out. My daughter, when in 6th grade, had better finger dexterity than I had, even though I'd been at it for years. BTW, that flower photo is a "butterfly pea" (of the wild pea family, Leguminosae). Sorry for the nerdiness. Have followed the wildflowers for years.
ReplyDeleteThanks for the comment, I actually hyperlinked the flower to a website which goes over it.
DeleteWell done and said - you are a great example of the fine folks in our club!
ReplyDeleteGreat post Kevin! I tried to enjoy teaching my wife fly fishing once. I finally gave up and turned her over to a real instructor. She's usually the one that catches the first and biggest fish.
ReplyDeleteExcellent post Kevin. And I love your flower and fish.
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